"Red's Downfall"

After reading both Grimm's and Perrault's version of Little Red Riding Hood, I have come to the conclusion both of these versions made Red responsible for her own downfall. However, Red is not entirely responsible for her own downfall because she has only been following a direct order from her mother. Red's mother should have been even more responsible for her own safety and she should have taken this opportunity to give Red guidance about talking to strangers. Since Red's mother was in charge of her daughter, she should be held responsible for her downfall. Some people kept saying that it's Red's own fault for not following her mother's directions correctly, I don't think it's 100% true.